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Myself, I enjoy small talk with acquaintances (librarians, bus driver, etc) and I'm close to a few family members. My darling would be the center of my world though, and I would be insecure about them having friends. Right now I'm currently considering how I would handle a pet. I love animals and have had pets growing up, but imagining my darling cooing over a pet instead of me gets to me.

I get more fucked up in the head when my social circle shrinks. This results in me becoming super fucking clingy and jealous and stupid and this inevitably makes my social circle even smaller bc no one wants to deal with that

I'm a not-so social creature.

I enjoy going to shows - sometimes with friends (who are also musicians) if they don't need to work and can afford it, but mostly alone. I only have smalltalk with people strangers sometimes at these shows mostly about the music and that's it. I have a part-time job, but I only talk about work with my coworkers. I work from home for my main job and I don't have any face-to-face pressure nor real contact to any people (costumers, coworkers, etc.). That's actually great. I can work whenever and wherever I want to.

People have a hard time of initiating me into their circle since I'm considered a complicated person - and that's due to my neurodiversity I guess (my right brain uses more capacity than the average person, hence I perceive the world more intense and I'm very creative). The only people who do so are musicians who see something in me. I hope that my future darling accepts these people in my social circle as part of embracing my creative output.

I'm okay with my darling having friends, as I want her to be happy. Everything is fine as long as she doesn't flirt with her male friends or lets them too close.

Me and Her at a minimum. At max? Direct family we like, and 1-2 distant friends just so we don't have *only* each other. Same as others, She's the best, and that means everyone else is no better than dirt. Why risk complication or undue influence on our relationship, when we like things just as we are? That's the ideal though, and currently isn't possible. Sad.

kurai said: 

I’m not a social creature, I only need one person.

No friends, no family, no pets and no children. My ideal world is just the two of us. I don’t need anyone else; my darling is everything to me, the center of my universe. It would be a complete betrayal if they didn’t reciprocate. I should be the center of their universe just like they’re the center of mine. I’ll be everything for them. No one else, just the two of us always and forever.

Sometimes speaking to store clerks is necessary, but it’s never enjoyable. I’m not close with my family and I don’t have any desire for friends. My interests lie exclusively with a singular romantic partner. That is all I want, just one person I can keep all to myself.

 I hope this doesn't come off the wrong way, but I'm rather envious of this stance. I personally feel like a love that encompasses two people and absolutely nothing else is the purest form of love.

i'm not sure tbh. However, I do believe having a social circule is a way to learn social skill inorder to use society as a survival tool. I will just try and run.

I don’t think that having a social circle would affect me relationship wise as long as those friends are sincere. I’m very introverted but if the friend's are genuine I don’t think it would matter I’m able to make the separation and love my friends and my partner much more. I rarely have social interaction and it doesn’t play a very big part in my life so I don’t think it would be a big deal. If it were to become a problem I could easily limit my time with them for my partner I still need some social life but I’m willing to disregard that for someone I love.

I wish it could only be me and my lover solely.

It would be nice to have a few friends but even with my current situation, I find it hard to balance the two out. I always fixate heavily on my beloved and pay constant attention to them the best that I can. In a perfect world, it’d be them and only them that I’d interact with every single day. That’s when I’ll truly be satisfied. No stress, no nothing, just pure bliss and happiness with my love.

I don't really have much concern or interest in having friends. I'm fine with the ones i do have, some buddies I hang out with and talk to here and there that I've been through hell with, and then my best friend, my literal partner in crime.