If you want to win the lotto, then you have to start playing the lotto, life is a game of cat an mouse. You can always go fetch cheese, but the risk is greater than the reward. Life is a bunch of gambles you take in order to live longer. Waiting can bring opportunities, but sometimes you just have to find the one that catches your eyes, and say, "That's the one." Then you do everything in your power to get them. But the lonelyness we feel probably isn't the same, we yearn for comfort and understanding, but we don't get people that understand us, so we feel lonely.
Idk. For me I feel lonely because I want someone I can deeply connect with. But at least I've got a sibling I'm close to, so I can't really complain.
Yeah, for me is something similar to that. I need people that I can understand and that can understand me, otherwise it will feel like there's a huge barrier between me and the people... Such unbreachable barrier that isolate me from the people no matter how close we are physically, that's loneliness for me.
To be frank I thought this was a thread about how weird it is to be physically alone. When I am alone I always feel like I'm being watched; it really freaks me out!
On the note of being alone, a believe that the ever popular main trope of the yandere is the inaction effect. The Inaction effect being when the target of a yandere's love does nothing to attract the yandere's love. It would seem to be that putting in no effort can still bear the fruits of love. This is contrary not only to real life but to the assumed story of the target of affection (TOA). The TOA usually is somewhat socially, if not romantically active. This is also true in real life, so it is that you need not let yourself bend to creeds unlike your own. It is essential, though, that you live (even half heartedly) out some social something or other. This is difference between fishing without bait and fishing with, even if the bait is 3 corn kernels you found right next to you.
Now I am not here to judge what you do with your time, but I do want to leave you with this message. A yandere lover doesn't just love yanderes, they love others in hope of the yandere spiriting them away into a warm and full of love basement. θδθ
I can't say much, but imagine forming a bond with someone you trust with everything. The one person who, no matter what happens, will always be by your side til the end. But now imagine that person betraying you and being told you were nothing but a tool. From that day on, you started to do everything on your own. All your interactions feel fake, and you can't fully trust anyone. You might be able to make friends and talk to people. But you know, dam well, you're on your own. Always feeling like an outcast and never feeling like you belong anywhere.
ɪ ꜰᴇᴇʟ ᴀʟᴏɴᴇ ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜꜱᴇ ᴛʜᴇ ᴏɴᴇꜱ ɪ'ᴠᴇ ɢᴏᴛᴛᴇɴ ᴄʟᴏꜱᴇ ᴛᴏ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴀʟʟ ʟᴇꜰᴛ ᴍʏ ʟɪꜰᴇ. ɪ ᴛʜɪɴᴋ ɪ ᴀᴍ ʙᴀᴅ ᴀᴛ ᴍᴀᴋɪɴɢ ᴀɴᴅ ᴍᴀɪɴᴛᴀɪɴɪɴɢ ꜰʀɪᴇɴᴅꜱʜɪᴘꜱ, ʜᴏɴᴇꜱᴛʟʏ..
ᴡʜɪʟᴇ ɪ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ɴᴇᴄᴇꜱꜱᴀʀɪʟʏ ᴇɴᴊᴏʏ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ᴀʟᴏɴᴇ, ɪ ꜰɪɴᴅ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪ ᴄᴀɴ ᴡᴏʀᴋ ᴏɴ ᴍʏꜱᴇʟꜰ ᴀɴᴅ ꜰᴏᴄᴜꜱ ᴏɴ ʜᴏʙʙɪᴇꜱ ꜱᴏ ᴛʜᴀᴛ'ꜱ ᴀ ꜱɪʟᴠᴇʀ ʟɪɴɪɴɢ ꜰᴏʀ ᴍᴇ.
