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Coping


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I have found myself back at that stage in life where I don't have a fixation and it has been messing with my head and heart. I have found a way to stop myself from trying to leap to a new obsession to fill the void and plan a new life with, but I still don't know what to do to make myself feel any better. My feelings of loneliness have been increasing to the point I struggle to enjoy my hobbies because it feels like nobody would care or appreciate anything I do. What are some ways you have learned to ease yourself and get back into living life without a fixation after an obsession goes cold? As much as I would love to actually find a new one, I have learned I need to know a person so I can avoid feeling misled again. 

I'd tear myself apart for love.
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the kill move is to imagine an idealised partner and obsess over them, then the only way you can feel closer to them is by adopting their traits yourself. this makes you both less lonely and you self-improve at the same time (if your imagined partner has desirable traits, that is)

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