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a few years ago,I noticed that my classmate (let’s call him M) started stalking me.Sometimes my things went missing (my personal diary,for example)and it scared me very much,one day after classes ended,I decided to go home(I was supposed to have extra classes that day,but I felt a little sick, so I decided to go home)when I was almost near my house,I noticed that M was following me,I was very scared and started crying ,I told him that if he doesn’t stop stalking me,I will tell my parents and the police about it, since then M has not bothered me anymore.

When I think about this situation,I also remember how I behaved the same way when I was in love with a guy(let’s call him A)(but unlike M,I didn't steal A's personal things).I just can't imagine how A could feel,

 

  

so even if you love someone so much that you are ready to stalk them and so on,then please first of all think about their feelings

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mono no aware

Destiny, help me find my love
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Now let me intervene here while we're at it:

[deleted, because I came to terms with the fact that I can't do anything in this situation that won't hurt anyone. I want to move the past behind and move on.]

 

"Love is the law, love under will."
last edit on 3/5/2024 11:09:08 AM
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I think the best solution in this situation is support, if you support her in any way,she may start have feelings for you, but as I said earlier, first of all think about how she might feel

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That's a very common mistake: to admire someone, expecting for he/she to notice you somehow.

No, you have to conquer their heart, or it is all meaningless. For me, it's all about the other person's feelings.

What is love? Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me. No more. Dun Dun - Dun Dun Dun Dun - Dun
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I think the best solution in this situation is support, if you support her in any way,she may start have feelings for you, but as I said earlier, first of all think about how she might feel

[deleted, because I came to terms with the fact that I can't do anything in this situation that won't hurt anyone. I want to move the past behind and move on.]

"Love is the law, love under will."
last edit on 3/5/2024 11:08:38 AM
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