As long as there's open communication there's nothing wrong with being poly. I have seen several yanderes who are poly, so it is a thing.
It's not for me though. I think if I was interested in someone and it turned out they were poly it'd be a deal breaker.
agree with wowitstea, i think polyamory is a major sin to yandere ideology. i think those people should stop stealing our labels and maybe not exist at all..
You don't agree with me. There is nothing wrong with polyamory. What I said is that it isn't for me. It isn't for everyone.
in this case, i agree with both wowitstea and sslainsaturn;
i too have seen people in the yandere community being polyamorous, but none of the poly relationships lasted long. members of the yandere community don’t equal being yanderes though, at least from my POV they weren’t.
i can’t grasp how yandere poly relationships work - i’m sure they do in some cases but.. with how possessive yanderes are, do they just split attention equally? it’s not always just about one side either, communication would be hard. for example: said poly yandere person’s partners are darlings - are they really 100% fine with others around their yandere too? it already sounds hard to me, i can’t imagine it working in practice.
i'm not absolutely against poly relationships in general - if it works for you, great. i think even if i were polyamorous, the jealousy would eat me up first. in my understanding, a true yandere cannot have a poly relationship.
Ah, yes, poly.
I foolishly thought that poly is fine or that I would be able to handle it. But nope. It drove me right into horrible breakdowns because I simply CAN'T share my beloved or have them do things with somebody else that's not me. So yeah, no poly for me and honestly probably most yanderes too. There might be some very few poly configurations that *might* work, but good luck finding them.
