Alright, let me be clear. I'd very much prefer a monogamous relationship with a yandere girl, who loves me, dearly. Although I'm not against a polyamorous relationship, I'm not one to seek it out.
The allure of several unique and individual personality types, is great. I find each variating type of romantic partner to have their own beauty, as I struggle to decide which one I want to spend my life with. Decisions are hard enough, but when you're as insignificant as myself, the choices are much harder... (Basically, I doubt I have the right qualities to attract anyone let alone a harem.)
I digress... Anyway, let me get to the point.
I didn't think it was a quality of a yandere, but according to someone who claimed to be one, she was polyamorous, I guess. So, this is less a question for darlings, like myself, and more of a question for yanderes. But really anyone can answer this.
What are your thoughts on Poly/Harem relationships? Do you want a Poly/Harem relationship? Would a Poly/Harem relationship be something you'd do to make your partner happy, if they wanted it?
My thoughts on Poly/Harem relationships:
I'm not against it. If my partner wanted a harem, I wouldn't be against it. I'd be uncertain, for sure—maybe even silently uneased. But as long as I don't begin feeling forgotten, or like I'm just holding them back, it really shouldn't be an issue. I'm not the type who likes standing between someone and their happiness, so I'd leave, if I felt like I was a burden, or holding people back. But, I also want to feel loved, so I might stay if it's clear that I'm causing less harm to the relationship, by being around. Once I make a commitment, I find it hard to break, even if I wanted to. So, if I made a connection with someone it's hard for me to let go. So, if my partner asked or even demanded a Poly/Harem relationship, then I'd hope that they're a hundred percent certain, that they won't lose interest in anyone "added to the bundle" or myself. It's hard enough for me to lose a partner, but it'd be even harder to lose several.
In a Poly/Harem relationship, I'd feel uncomfortable with the new introduction, at first, as they're being introduced to the intimate aspects of mine and my partner's relationship. Or if I'm brought into a Poly/Harem relationship, I'd be doing the same.
I see pros and cons to a Poly/Harem relationship, both filled with excellent points:
Pros: There'd likely be more support (mentally, physically and economically).
Cons: Jealousy could arise or develop. All involved might not have enough energy for everyone.
There's lots of pros, and plenty of cons. I think a lot on this, as this is one of many topics, my ADHD drags me back to. But, please... Share your thoughts, as well.
