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No, but this is a goal of mine.❤ I know my comment isn't really as relevant but I hope it boosts this post. 

@Rushihaa

Since someone drop it, I want to give some ideas of my own ♡ I want him to love me back. I need him to. How do you make someone’s world twist around you without them realizing you’re already the center?

Be consistent in showing you care (messages, small gestures). Obsession grows from attention. People feel closer when they think you get them. Pick up on his habits, preferences, moods. Don’t just pour all love out—watch how he responds. If he starts matching your energy, that’s a green flag. Make them miss you. Even in a “yan” context, what makes someone stay is feeling they’re safe with you, not trapped. 

Mutual yandere relationships… I’ve seen a few, and they’re terrifying in the most beautiful way. It’s not one person chasing it’s two people circling each other like predators who already decided to starve if the other isn’t there.

How it usually starts? Honestly, obsession recognizes obsession. You notice the way they notice you, the way they never let go of details you forgot saying, the way their mood shifts if someone else gets too close. That click happens and suddenly it’s not you dragging them in...it’s both of you falling, tangled together.

Usually it’s a cycle: one shows devotion, the other mirrors it, and suddenly you’re both competing to prove who needs who more. Encourage her possessiveness. Don’t fight it always feed it. Let her know you want her to obsess and be all of her attention. That permission can unlock something dangerous, but also binding. Fuel some jealousy, because I've always believed the fact that if “If you’re this crazy about me, I must mean everything.” Others might call it toxic, but to the two of you, it feels like the safest place in the world, it's love because who else could ever understand needing someone like this?

Breakups aren’t on the table. The thought of leaving doesn’t even exist. If they go, I would go too. I hope some of this might be helpful. Also, goodluck with making them love you! 

I'm in one, it started when i met him in a yan discord.
in 2020 i messaged him first and from there it was just perfect♡!
were on the phone 24/7, our longest call(without disconnects) is 6 days on discord, even as we grew we kept being on the phone with each other when we can.
work gets in the way. obv were long distance so this helps with being apart but boy when we have trips everytime we have to leave, my soul is split into two again
it takes 4 months to get back to being ok with the distance. but by then it's already time for a new trip!
we can't go without atleast two trips in a year. it has caused problems with my border since it's cheaper if he comes to me.
i think a few days after we got together i told him about life 360, it's an app to help keep family or friends safe.
i really wanted to do the door dash thing i seen other ldr people do but i can't figure it out (╥﹏╥).
when we first met in person we had gift's to give each other it we recorded it.(੭˃ᴗ˂)੭
we try to find similar food so we can eat it together.
i wish i met him sooner.
also he gave me a promise ring when we met again for our 1 year anniversary!!( ˶ˆᗜˆ˵ )
i would say whatsapp is better for long term callsദ്ദി ˉ͈̀꒳ˉ͈́ )✧
oh and lucky for us our trips are mostly 3-5 months together split into two

sorry for any typos..