i think monitoring people's activity online should be normalized because imo, you are just looking out for the person! you're just checking if they're following anybody new, what mutuals you guys have (if it's tiktok/instagram/anything but discord) i honestly like to see their mutuals, who they follow. why they follow, how do they know them!? i wouldn't mind if it happened to me ngl, i think its cute! i usually walk behind people, been called a dog because of it but i am a wandere, i do have a dog-like personality. but i have some cat traits! i like to follow people i like around, i like to try to catch up to them. i like to sometimes watch afar, if only i received that but i never do