i think monitoring people's activity online should be normalized because imo, you are just looking out for the person! you're just checking if they're following anybody new, what mutuals you guys have (if it's tiktok/instagram/anything but discord) i honestly like to see their mutuals, who they follow. why they follow, how do they know them!? i wouldn't mind if it happened to me ngl, i think its cute! i usually walk behind people, been called a dog because of it but i am a wandere, i do have a dog-like personality. but i have some cat traits! i like to follow people i like around, i like to try to catch up to them. i like to sometimes watch afar, if only i received that but i never do
It shows the interest in someone fr fr(´▽`ʃ♡ƪ)
i agree !!
omg another person who does this i thought i was by myself lol (0o0)your cool
omgee thank you :D nah you're not alone
Oh! Me, too! My lover told me I acted just like a puppy when we first met. :D He thought it was cute that I was following him and looking up at him constantly. I do agree with you that, when it comes to consensual monitoring, it can provide comfort to know what people are a part of your partner's life. The only time I would advise against this is if you start to doubt your partner's words, thinking he or she is secretly doing things behind your back even when he or she reassures you. The reason is that it could exacerbate your compulsion to stalk, and it can get pretty bad. (I've been there.)