Sweet and doting. Affectionate and worshipping. Possesive, obsessive, protective. Someone who is eager to have and love me and sees me for who am but loves me anyway. I think I'm a sop haha.
Me too lol
my partner but to break him down:
If my darling isn't violently possessive, I am talking threats, the same, dissociative trance state in jealous moments, than that darling is not my type. My ideal darling would never lie to me, not consider anyone else even as an option, or maybe even entice me or threaten me out of my own comfort and life, but even in periods of being highly sensitive and touchy, still cares, and that would be why any of this would be done. (ie. also has bpd)
Something a bit more plain, reiterating my need for a honest individual who has no need for lying. Generous, overall incredibly patient but also runs on a similar "do no harm, take no shit" policy that I run on; there is technically no reason for me to be bitchy or bite-y unless provoked. I do not like doormats, I will frequently avoid people who are the kind to spam me messages expecting an immediate response when I am sleeping during my sleeping hours, or expect me to be their therapist instead of anything else. I would also, probably surprising to a few, prefer people with little/no sympathy or empathy. I get along better with people who don't really run on those sorts of things, so even if we have non-logical emotions, how we solve it can be less reactive and more productive. I also frequently avoid people who are nonchalant.. I love passion.
Being a decent person will also come along side a lot of these things, anyway, I think.
