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futabamisoo said: 

Each one of us has our own uniqueness. But not everyone likes the other person despite their qualities, and most often would rely on physical attractiveness to be able to like a person. I know for sure that I might have those qualities or anything, i am so good only to them, but they just couldn't like me.

Is the pace too fast? Or did something make them unattracted to me? I swear, for love, I am not looking for situation ships or any fast relationships that make it look like I am looking out of boredom. I REALLY LIKE THEM. I can see my life with them. They are the only closet thing to my god rigth now.Please answer. Because I wanted to be the perfect one for them if that's the case. I am so confused. And hurt. They do not care about me. I wanted to be the perfect one for them because I believe in loving only one person and not looking around for better options. I will have those qualities they liked myself.

It’s confusing because people say they want a partner who is obsessed with them, but then they may wonder it as weird and ask for how the way I care. It tears me apart knowing that we can’t force a connection, and that people are so contradictory. I can lists the things I like about them. I am sure of my feelings, and I wouldn't find it on anyone else's. Maybe they do for someone else? This is why they do not find a likeness out of me. And it's driving me srsly maad. I know I am still not myself, I have to be better again with my career and life choices. Still , I am the only one for them, I who could be better whatever they want I will do it. Anything. I can do anything for them. They wouldn't feel lonely and depressed with me so why still go on with that. What are your preferences?

 this situation is like"ehh i want a obsessed person in life"but when they get one they simply aren't meant for it.in life most people will mostly choose people they like and in the end they lose both side like choosing someone who only likes you might cause trouble sometimes varies on different person but most of the time it aren't bad and most of the time it is better be your original self then becoming something that they will want you to be

I've thought about love a lot, this is only my opinion: You can like several things about people, you can even "like" people because of that, but I think "love" can only work the other way around, you can only love someone because you can accept their flaws.

Yesyesyes I so agree with this. I even wrote in a poem of mine called 'Merge' that I want all of his flaws too because when you love someone their flaws are just perfect!!! 

gay  ramble  incoming  I  will  only  date  within  those  who  are  my  type,  so  frequently  I  never  search  for  individuals  who  are  "desiring  a  yandere"  or  "desiring  a  darling"--  it  is  never  that  simple  for  me  usually  (and,  being  aroacespec,  many  non-aroace-spec  people  are  actually  quite  weird  about  it  so  [loud  incorrect  buzzer]).  I  need  someone  who  is  just  as  mentally  ill  as  I  am,  I  do  not  keep  count  but  if  we  clearly  dont  understand  eachother  because  one  of  us  is  clearly  more  sane  than  the  other,  it  won't  even  work  out  friendship  wise  for  long.  Mentally  ill,  just  as  batshit  as  I  typically  tend  to  be  if  I'm  feeling  lucky  enough  to  ask  the  universe  for  someone  like  this.  Someone  who  is  okay  with  me  being  freely  loving  and  having  multiple  partners,  but  understands  my  complicated  relationship  with  romance.  Someone  who  will  not  try  to  fix  me  is  very  important.  But  on  a  lighter  note,  I  do  like  blond(e)s,  eheh...

My  current  darling  is  okay  with  me  as  I  am  and  gives  me  comfort  when  and  if  needed.  He  genuinely  sounds  disgusted  when  I  even  insinuate  the  possibility  of  any  sort  of  emotional  distance  between  eachother  or  abandoning  me,  it  soothes  my  soul.  He  thinks  a  lot  of  my  quirks  are  cute,  which  puts  me  at  ease  and  makes  me  generally  very  happy...  he  is  a  bit  insecure  about  some  of  his  features,  but  I  think  me  calling  those  features  cute  without  knowing  they  were  something  he  thought  negatively  about  has  affected  him  very  positively,  and  he  has  done  this  for  me  and  referring  to  me  masculinely,  as   man,  his  boyfriend,  etc...  I  like  how  annoyingly  loud  he  gets  over  things  hes  passionate  about.  He  is  REALLY  into  my  legs.  Specifically  my  legs.  Not  even  as  a  fetishistic  thing  I  don't  think,  like  how  I've  taken  a  liking  to  his  arms.

I  could  go  on  forever.  I  will  stop  myself  here.  :')