Honouring My Sweetheart

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Preferences. What you like and what makes them like you?


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Each one of us has our own uniqueness. But not everyone likes the other person despite their qualities, and most often would rely on physical attractiveness to be able to like a person. I know for sure that I might have those qualities or anything, i am so good only to them, but they just couldn't like me.

Is the pace too fast? Or did something make them unattracted to me? I swear, for love, I am not looking for situation ships or any fast relationships that make it look like I am looking out of boredom. I REALLY LIKE THEM. I can see my life with them. They are the only closet thing to my god rigth now.Please answer. Because I wanted to be the perfect one for them if that's the case. I am so confused. And hurt. They do not care about me. I wanted to be the perfect one for them because I believe in loving only one person and not looking around for better options. I will have those qualities they liked myself.

It’s confusing because people say they want a partner who is obsessed with them, but then they may wonder it as weird and ask for how the way I care. It tears me apart knowing that we can’t force a connection, and that people are so contradictory. I can lists the things I like about them. I am sure of my feelings, and I wouldn't find it on anyone else's. Maybe they do for someone else? This is why they do not find a likeness out of me. And it's driving me srsly maad. I know I am still not myself, I have to be better again with my career and life choices. Still , I am the only one for them, I who could be better whatever they want I will do it. Anything. I can do anything for them. They wouldn't feel lonely and depressed with me so why still go on with that. What are your preferences?

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Each one of us has our own uniqueness. But not everyone likes the other person despite their qualities, and most often would rely on physical attractiveness to be able to like a person. I know for sure that I might have those qualities or anything, i am so good only to them, but they just couldn't like me.

Is the pace too fast? Or did something make them unattracted to me? I swear, for love, I am not looking for situation ships or any fast relationships that make it look like I am looking out of boredom. I REALLY LIKE THEM. I can see my life with them. They are the only closet thing to my god rigth now.Please answer. Because I wanted to be the perfect one for them if that's the case. I am so confused. And hurt. They do not care about me. I wanted to be the perfect one for them because I believe in loving only one person and not looking around for better options. I will have those qualities they liked myself.

It’s confusing because people say they want a partner who is obsessed with them, but then they may wonder it as weird and ask for how the way I care. It tears me apart knowing that we can’t force a connection, and that people are so contradictory. I can lists the things I like about them. I am sure of my feelings, and I wouldn't find it on anyone else's. Maybe they do for someone else? This is why they do not find a likeness out of me. And it's driving me srsly maad. I know I am still not myself, I have to be better again with my career and life choices. Still , I am the only one for them, I who could be better whatever they want I will do it. Anything. I can do anything for them. They wouldn't feel lonely and depressed with me so why still go on with that. What are your preferences?

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 this situation is like"ehh i want a obsessed person in life"but when they get one they simply aren't meant for it.in life most people will mostly choose people they like and in the end they lose both side like choosing someone who only likes you might cause trouble sometimes varies on different person but most of the time it aren't bad and most of the time it is better be your original self then becoming something that they will want you to be

BE STRONG & STAY WELL AND KEEP MOVING FORWARD
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I've thought about love a lot, this is only my opinion: You can like several things about people, you can even "like" people because of that, but I think "love" can only work the other way around, you can only love someone because you can accept their flaws.

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