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When did you realize your Dere type?


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Hiya all~! Sotina here, and I figured I'd contribute to the site with a topic that came to my mind!

So as we all know, we host a decent number of people here on this site, and most if not all of us have a specific Dere type we associate with. Whether you're a Yandere or a Tsundere. Or a Deredere or a Kuudere. Most of us have at least one that feels... "Us".

So what I was wondering is... When did you figure out your Dere type, and maybe even how?

I'll start~. For me personally, I found out I was a Yandere in my early teens. however it didn't really... "click" until fairly recently. I just always felt this... similarity between me and the Yanderes. And I could never figure out why. Just their love and pure obsession, it felt so true. Yeah, I understood killing was wrong... or that a lot of their behaviors are "bad", at least societally. but there's just something about a Yanderes love that felt so close to me.

Turns out, Love makes some of us Yanderes. Or "crazy", and I just so happen to be one such case. Of course, it took me falling into actual love to figure that one out. That said, I don't really consider myself crazy. (Unless of course, it's crazy about My Love~.)

So that's me personally, what about all of you? When did you figure out your Dere type and how?

I'm very very interested in hearing everyone's thoughts on this~!

 

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last edit on 3/17/2023 1:35:48 AM
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0 votes RE: When did you realize your Dere type?

I'll follow up weeks later. I generally try to avoid using dere labels, since there boxes are a little too strict, and some of them break up the consistency (gundere, meganedere, nyandere in some forms, etc.) But two or three I believe could apply are Goudere, Yandere(obv) and Dandere.

Dandere has been between 8-10 for me, as I generally just didn't care much for other peoples expectations, and kept a mean poker face most of the time. I did my business, went to have fun, and tolerated people others would probably have instigated something with/have feelings of hatred for. This has kept true for most of my young life, though I have learned to hate. So one step back. Goudere falls in with Yandere. First relationship at 16, I was a ride or die kind of guy and helped her whenever she needed for whatever reason. I gave complete loyalty(and some unneeded stalking) and love, not knowing people are normally a bit more detached. Since then I've joined yan communities on and off.

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I've felt intense, yandere-esque love since I was small. I feel love way too hard, way too much. It took a long time to understand and control it. I accept being yandere as part of me now!

i pray nobody kills me for the crime of being small
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It was a few years ago when I first watched Mirai Nikki. I got a bit obsessed with Yuno after that, and that's when I started reading about Yandere et al.

Quickly realised I was Yandere-inclined (and Yandere-attracted) and realised why all my past relationships were never right for me (and probably were worse than no relationship at all in some ways.) I'm still friends with some of my exes, but knowing what I know now I'd never try to get back together with them.

Game dev, Yandere, RP, Discord: @jaxnobu
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ʜᴍᴍ. ᴏᴜᴛ ᴏꜰ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜᴇ ᴅᴇʀᴇ ᴛʏᴘᴇꜱ, ɪ ᴛʜɪɴᴋ ɪ ɪᴅᴇɴᴛɪꜰʏ ᴡɪᴛʜ "ᴅᴇʀᴇᴅᴇʀᴇ." ᴛʜɪꜱ ɪꜱ ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜꜱᴇ ɪ ᴅᴏɴ'ᴛ ʜɪᴅᴇ ᴍʏ ꜰᴇᴇʟɪɴɢꜱ ᴛᴏᴡᴀʀᴅꜱ ᴛʜᴇ ᴏɴᴇ ɪ ʟᴏᴠᴇ, ᴀɴᴅ ɪ'ᴍ Qᴜɪᴛᴇ ᴏᴘᴇɴ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴅɪꜱᴘʟᴀʏɪɴɢ ᴍʏ ᴀꜰꜰᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ(ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜ ɪɴ ᴘᴜʙʟɪᴄ, ɪ ᴛʀʏ ᴛᴏ ᴛᴏɴᴇ ɪᴛ ᴅᴏᴡɴ.) ɪ ᴅɪꜱᴄᴏᴠᴇʀᴇᴅ ᴛʜɪꜱ ᴡʜɪʟᴇ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ɪɴ ᴍʏ ꜰɪʀꜱᴛ ᴀɴᴅ ᴄᴜʀʀᴇɴᴛ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴꜱʜɪᴘ. ɪ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ɢᴇᴛᴛɪɴɢ ᴀꜰꜰᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ ʙᴀᴄᴋ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ꜱᴀᴍᴇ ᴡᴀʏ.

ᴡʜɪʟᴇ ɪ ᴡᴏɴ'ᴛ ꜱᴀʏ ɪ'ᴍ ᴀ ʏᴀɴᴅᴇʀᴇ-- ɪ ᴅᴏ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴏʙꜱᴇꜱꜱɪᴠᴇ(ᴀɴᴅ ʟᴏᴡᴋᴇʏ ᴘᴏꜱꜱᴇꜱꜱɪᴠᴇ) ᴛᴇɴᴅᴇɴᴄɪᴇꜱ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ꜱᴛʀᴜɢɢʟᴇᴅ ᴅᴇᴀʟɪɴɢ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴇᴠᴇʀ ꜱɪɴᴄᴇ ᴍʏ ᴛᴇᴇɴᴀɢᴇ ʏᴇᴀʀꜱ, ꜱᴏ ɪ ᴅᴏ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛᴇ ᴀ ʙɪᴛ ᴛᴏ ʏᴀɴᴅᴇʀᴇ ᴄʜᴀʀᴀᴄᴛᴇʀꜱ.

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last edit on 9/16/2024 5:42:34 PM
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