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try to see if there are any other way to reach out to them, like through another social media and such. as a last resort, make up a second identity through a second account and contact them to find out what he thinks about you and maybe get them to unblock you. this wouldn't be acceptable to normal people though, so timing is a very important aspect in all of this. Perseverance and Faith are key.

I agree on the advice above. Maybe you should ask mutual friends about your darling (how they are doing, what topics they might be interested in currently) and what they think of you. Or you make friends with their friends and then ask them these things. Good luck!

If it doesn't turn out the way you want it, then you have to accept the fact that it won't work out with them. I know it's hard. I had to let go off my crush because she severly suffers from a loss in her family and she has "a boyfriend". Someone like me is definetly not someone she needs right now. Although not a new person in my life has shown up yet that I have fallen deeply in love with, I enjoy the hope and the freedom that this will happen one day.

Thank you for the advice, both of you.

I have been thinking about it for the past few days. I wouldn't want to do anything that might cross potential boundaries, and I think forcing myself to reach out in other ways or making a second identity would cross those. The last thing I would want to do is make them uncomfortable, and I do not think I am good at pulling any of that off - it would probably end up being very obvious. Being where I am right now in my daily life has put my brain in a constant flight or fight mode, which has made things like that a lot more difficult. And unfortunately, we do not have any mutual friends anymore either.

It is really unfortunate that the moment I finally get obsessed with someone again after so long it is someone who is unavailable and who might not ever talk to me again at this point. What a cruel joke the universe plays on me lmao. I don't really know where to go from here aside from praying and hoping a god out there hears my pleas and grants them :,)

I think you are learning how to forgive. Me personally, I would write a letter to him/her. But I understand you don't want to go there. 

If you want I can pray about this for you. :D 

alas. Dust to dust. My suggestion is to detail ask and carefully audit love. You may need to carefully audit your emotion from now on. Maybe you should form a protocols for love and understanding love or interpret love.

Idk.

But you should be good. It all has been that time. You need something so called"rational yandere". Which is exactly how it said in the wedding vows yet with a grain of salt and treat them as a gist then build blocks with rational thoughs about it.

Don't afraid to do ritualistic things with your partner.

Deep conversation hours could be work.