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pt.2 we both do small acts of love

(i put this because i noticed alot of people vent about their partners not doing small things for them)

 
if one person is getting something to snack on without asking they get someonething for the other

he is willing to sometimes give me the last bite of his food

when i need quietness he trys his best to give it to me(i have chronic migraines he has adhd)

he wants to brush my hair when i have wash days(my hair takes 6+ hours)

he's a night person, im morning so i try to stay up with him and he tries to wake up for me

he trys to tuck me in when im sleep but i throw the covers off(i get hot easy)

he lets me play with his hair

we wear each others clothes

he makes sure my house shoes isnt under the bed

he leaves me letters when he's about to leave i told him not to cause it makes me cry

:v now his input on me

we try to play eachothers games even if we dont like the game

we help eachother stay on time

she cuddles me in the morning till its hot

we watch nightly videos together

even when we tired or after work we still make time for eachother

she gets us activites to do together like the dots or a lego set or some art and crafts

i give her kiss on forhead at night (she wakes up smh)

she reminds me to take my meds

she makes us roblox outfits and outfits in other games that match

this hard idk why you do alot fr me yet im head empty

Will add more to this one or a different style-☆

My favourite person is my mom. I am clingy and affectionate to her a lot. I also like knowing what she's doing and keeping tabs on her. I don't like when others get attention from her (except my siblings.) Oh, and I like it when she shares food with me. 

That's cute chocolatecake! me and my mom share clothes and shoes ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ

Pt. 3 Up's and Downs, The Hard Truth's and Communication.

i know my last two seemed like all sunshine and rainbows but i wanted to talk about some struggles
from the get go me and him had basically the same boundaries, but that did not stop problems from arising,
keep in mind little fight's here and there aren't bad it's just how you handle them, that's the key.
watching other relationships i realized that everything had to be fair, if he did some bullshit i would do it right back and he would see what he did
was shitty(he got jelly). we started on a very, very toxic level and our hard work over the past 2 years paid off(we've been together for 4). we were teens when we met with very unstable trauma
so we bounced off each other and had to slowly out learn what we was taught. it wad hard communicating my feelings and thoughts because i grew up being unheard and it was hard for him
to wait until i was ready because he grew up yelling to get the point across, COMMUNICATION IS KEY to keep a relationship, wither you need to take a few to keep your thoughts together
or write what your feeling in the moment, always communicate to your partner.

i dont think we ever had a ground breaking fight tbh, just smaller but important ones.
i'm not saying that the first year or two was unbearable, it was a learning and growing time for both of us and it definitely helped us get stronger together,
for both of us it was a huge eye opener to finally be open about everything we ever been thru without worrying about judgement or shame, to be loved and be treasured 
that's a feeling i will never forget.

all relationships have up's and down's, when it gets too tough it's up to BOTH parties to talk it out. ദ്ദി（• ˕ •マ.ᐟ

extra's

i know i could just make another form/topic but i want to keep it all together plus im lazy :)
i wanted to talk about the pain of being in a ldr.

Old rent "Being in a long distance relationship is both rewarding and hell... Rewarding because you have your love one, but hell because your miles apart.

It's been 5 days since he was in my arms my house feels empty, i haven't been taking care of myself. It's hard to sleep at night even when we're on the phone. My room used to smell like us but now it's just me again. I hate this,, it's so hard going back to long distance after basically living together for 3 months....i know I'm being greedy but idc... I just want him back with me.

It feels like half of my soul left when he did,, he's safe at home and we're back on the phone 24/7 but it's just not the same... I miss everything i can't even handle driving/going out by myself no more, I'm used to being with him practically everywhere. Now it's just me and a overheating phone.. versus his body heat.

You know what's funny after i dropped him off at the airport and left his song played, Die with a smile..i legit died inside but i wasn't driving so i was safe just crying and ded.

"3 months later- I still miss him, it's still hard to sleep, I gotta used to doing everything by myself again. I still have flash backs of when he was here, either on my bed, on my computer, sitting in the Living room, cooking, the bathroom, my car....sitting next to me when I visit family.. I'm ngl it's really hard the only difference is that there's no more tears.I had the clothes that I last wore with him and my sheet balled up on the corner of my bed, on the side he slept on to try to keep his scent( it didn't work) I keep ending up on his side of my bed like I'm gonna magically bump into him....Good new we might have a trip soon again

1 month later- no more thinking about when he was here, might actually, like for real have a trip, still feel iffy when i drive, i sleep better on his side, still on the phone.
started to talk about what we can do in winter if he comes down.. working on our channel together, nothing really different but getting excited about a trip.

could be bad but we always tried to have two trips each year, our pockets is paying the price but we do not care.